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-====== Exchange Letter ======
+====== SCUMSUCK's exchange letter ======
+Mirror of [[https://scumsuck.com/exchanges/letter|the exchange letter on my main site]].  This is my testing ground for revisions.
+---
+Hello reader! I'm honored that you are considering my request. You do not have to use any of the ideas I wrote in my Likes, just follow the _Do Not Wants (DNW)_ and I'm sure I will enjoy it too :D
+I've attempted to write this letter to encompass ideas I like in visual art, writing, and other creative mediums. I would like to show that I like a broad range of things, so, if we have any matching interests that are weird or niche, you can write something we mutually enjoy.
+Above all, please have fun!
+Thank you for taking the time to read my likes and dislikes!
+Links
+-----
+Find me and tag me on any of the below sites:
+*   [AO3 profile (cumdumpster666)](https://archiveofourown.org/users/cumdumpster666/profile)
+*   [Mastodon](https://blorbo.social/@scumsuck)
+*   [Dreamwidth](https://tempural.dreamwidth.org/)
+I never log into twitter/tumblr/instagram. I just for post stuff on there and run away, so I probably won't see messages or tags.
+Mediums
+-------
+#### Medium Likes
+I like pretty much everything! I like typical stuff like writing and art, as well as experimemtal work. Prose, meta, non-fiction, drawings, amvs, whatever you can think of! Stuff that plays with narration, unreliable viewpoints, in-universe documentation, multi-media.. all cool with me.
+I really love seeing handcrafted works, like zines, sculptures, physical collages, and other real world objects.
+#### Medium Do Not Wants (DNW)
+I generally don't like to hear spoken audio by itself, like ASMR or podfics. It's fine if it's part of a video, music, or animation.
+Likes
+-----
+### General Likes
+*   Cute stuff! Fluff, growing friendship, mundane life, hanging out, holidays!!
+*   Humor! Funny! Silly! I like to laugh.
+*   Moody stuff! Mellow, atmospheric, tearjerking, and psychological.
+*   Emphasizing inhuman features of a character: claws, wings, teeth.
+*   Animal characteristics and symbolism. _Ex: catboys with literal cat ears, or just comparing a character to a cat or whatever._
+*   AAimal-sonas. Turn them into dogs or cats or earthworms or whatever you think fits them! Heck, turn 'em into monsters and creatures from mythology or your mind.
+*   Boy to girl genderbends! Turn them into yuri, hets, or unspecififed genders. I LOVE when they keep their personality, but they just change their haircut, clothes, and/or body fat distribution.
+*   Descriptions of a character's body from another character's POV.
+*   Canon divergence, alternate timelines
+*   Medical stuff! Taking care of one another.
+### Relationships Likes
+I use the term "ship" to mean relationships that range from platonic, familial, romantic, overlapping and otherwise.
+*   Emphasis on contrasts between characters: _i.e age difference, size difference, experience difference_
+*   Crushes, unrequited feelings, one-sided infatuation, unspoken emotion, obliviousness
+*   Platonic interactions, but can be read with yaoi goggles on. Just friends...lest?
+*   Ephemeral relationships. Perhaps not "endgame", but can remain a nostalgic memory.
+*   Rejection. Mourning, loss and death. Haunted.
+*   Toxic obsession, (co-)dependency, desperation, masochism.
+*   Gekokujō - someone of a lower position overthrowing someone of a higher position. Comparable to role reversal.
+### Grotesque likes
+Subjects related to horror n' gore. These can overlap with 18+ likes. Click to view.
+*   Kidnapping, torture, restraints.
+*   Illness, blood, vomit.
+*   Hospitals, bedbound, medical experimentation.
+*   Bones, ribcages, spines, vertebrae, skeletal anatomy.
+*   Death, cannibalism, organs, tendons, tissue, strung out intestines, decapitation, amputation, quadruple limb amputation.
+### 🔞 Adult likes
+Subjects related to sex. Click to view.
+*   Focus on what the characters are feeling (emotionally and physically)
+*   Bigger/taller bottoms, old man uke _(45+ yrs old!! Man can be any gender._.
+*   Confident bottoms: power bottom, experienced, cruel, sadist, masochist.
+*   Unassuming tops: smaller, submissive ineperienced, virgin, younger, chibi seme!
+*   Strong tops and moe-through-helplessness bottoms 😉 especially coupled with old man uke and role reversal.
+*   Femdom, fem-top.
+*   Dudes with vaginas, girls with penises, treated as unremarkable.
+*   Monsterfucking, xenophilia, teratophilia.
+*   Non-penetrative sex: intercrural, through clothes, heavy petting, etc.
+*   Hand holding, gentle, guiding sex 🥺
+*   Unspoken consent
+*   Dubious consent (on both sides too!!), whether with alcohol, drugs, heat cycles, fuck-or-die, a third-party coercing them...
+*   Ero-guro
+*   Nullo: characters without genitals. Could be born that way, chose to do it, did a ritual, part of torture, or cartoon characters that are just like that.
+Opt-ins
+-------
+These are subjects that are often put on DNW lists, that I'm fine with.
+If there is a fandom-specific DNW in my main exchange summary (like on AO3 or Dreamwidth) that may conflict with this text, the fandom-specific DNWs override the ones below.
+*   Infidelity, jealousy, possessiveness, characters being in unhealthy/abusive relationships
+*   Unrequited love, love stories that end badly, separations
+*   Darker subjects of death, noncon, illness, and bad endings.
+Do Not Wants
+------------
+[[https://fanlore.org/wiki/DNW|DNW = Do Not Want.]] Stuff I don't care for. I do not judge others for what they like. These are my personal boundaries.
+If there is a fandom-specific DNW in my main exchange summary (like on AO3 or Dreamwidth) that may conflict with this text, the fandom-specific DNWs override the ones below.
+I can [[.:DNW|elaborate on some details of the DNWs on another page]], but if you need any further clarification feel free to ask.
+==== General DNW====
+*   No established romantic relationships between the main ship (think boyfriend, husband, etc) unless otherwise requested.
+*   No ship reversal for one-sided attraction (like X character has a one-sided attraction to Y character) unless I state otherwise.
+*   No out-of-universe specific war/disaster/disease scenarios like Covid-19, 9/11, Hurricane Katrina, etc. If it's a war-themed universe, like TF2 or Fallout, it's fine to mention historical events that have happened in universe.
+*   Don’t focus conflict on systematic oppression like racism, transphobia, sexism, homophobia, ableism, etc. I'm fine with brief mentions of it in-universe, if it's part of the culture, character, and/or era. But I do not want that to be the main conflict.
+====🔞 Adult DNW====
+Unwanted sexual subjects. Please read if you plan to create something sexual. Click to view
+*   No ship reversal for dynamics I've specififed (top/bottom, dom/sub) unless I state otherwise.
+*   No bathroom kinks: scat, farts, pee.  _Medical context is fine.  Vomit is fine._
+*   No omegaverse, a/b/o dynamics.
+*   No daddy kink, or any sexual mention of the term "daddy". _Unless it's meant to be mocking or funny in-character._
+*   No underage sex (under 18 years old)
+*   No bestiality. That means real animals like cats, dogs, horses, and so on. _Mythological creatures, shifters, and monsters are fine (ex: catboys, xenomorphs, werewolves, dragons, giant radioactive bugs)._
+*   No cartoonish body transformation fetishes like inflation, flattening, hyper-endowment, unbirthing.
+*   No stuffing, feederism.