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What I post

I will post anything and everything that pops into my mind. I don't really want to separate my interests into 10 different blogs. You're gonna be getting garden blogging, along with cat pics, historical cannibalism research, and my spongebob porn.

  • I will usually use Content Wrappers/Warnings and tags for things that I would not want other people to read over my shoulder in public. Such as war, politicians, complaining, violence, cartoon gore, explicit sexual content, male presenting nipples, and more.
  • I don't use CWs for animals, bugs, or food. Those are things I regularly post about, so I will use hashtags and keywords on those posts. Please mute those keywords as needed.

You should feel free to follow, unfollow, and block my accounts at anytime. I don't care about breaking mutuals or whatever.

Boundaries or DNIs

“A boundary is something you have control over with a clear action you are capable of taking as a consequence.

“Don’t talk to me if you’re a Nazi” — This is not a boundary, this is a demand and it’s not something you have any control over. Nazis can and will initiate contact with whoever they want.

“If you talk to me and I find out you’re a Nazi, I will block you” — A boundary. A clear cause and effect that YOU have control over.”

hadeantaiga

DNI (Do Not Interact lists) are common online. But there are plenty of people I would prefer not to interact with, but I have no control over it. Whether it's subway molesters or guys drizzling beer on you at concerts.

In real life I would physically move my body from such people. Online all I can do is mute, block, and ignore.

i've largely abandoned “minors dni” as a label in my bio, mainly because i believe minors should be able to talk to an adult that isnt in their immediate surroundings, but also because i was a minor once upon a time and without the few adults who did talk to me, i would have been completely ignorant of what was to come in early adulthood, i would have been so much more naïve and susceptible to manipulation, so on and so forth

shebang@is-a.cat

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