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What I post

I will post anything and everything that pops into my mind. I don't really want to separate my interests into 10 different blogs. You're gonna be getting garden blogging, along with cat pics, historical cannibalism research, and my spongebob porn.

Boundaries

“A boundary is something you have control over with a clear action you are capable of taking as a consequence.

“Don’t talk to me if you’re a Nazi” — This is not a boundary, this is a demand and it’s not something you have any control over. Nazis can and will initiate contact with whoever they want.

“If you talk to me and I find out you’re a Nazi, I will block you” — A boundary. A clear cause and effect that YOU have control over.”

hadeantaiga

DNI (Do Not Interact lists) are common online. But there are plenty of people I would prefer not to interact with, but I have no control over it. Whether it's subway molesters or guys drizzling beer on you at concerts.

In real life I would physically move my body from such people. Online all I can do is mute, block, and ignore.

i've largely abandoned “minors dni” as a label in my bio, mainly because i believe minors should be able to talk to an adult that isnt in their immediate surroundings, but also because i was a minor once upon a time and without the few adults who did talk to me, i would have been completely ignorant of what was to come in early adulthood, i would have been so much more naïve and susceptible to manipulation, so on and so forth

shebang@is-a.cat

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